At the beginning of the relationship, love seems to have a life of its own. Without much effort, you feel like you are on top of the world. You catch yourself smiling and laughing often, and a warm feeling inside when you and your lover. Everything and everyone suddenly appears better through the red-colored glasses of love. Feelings of joy will not last forever, however. After the first year of marriage, with the daily activities of married, working at jobs, families, buying and maintaining a house, etc., all take their victims, and romance take a back seat.
Love to work, like a gardener with his garden. Although he has planted the seeds, and expect the sun and rain to do most of the work he continues to pull weeds from the garden, for fertilizer, water and if there is no sufficient rain. It’s the same with a healthy relationship and loving. When love is a high priority in the marriage, was treated every day. The resulting award you love to become more mature, soft, feel committed, and when tested, up to the challenge. How do you keep love alive in marriage?
You need quality time with your loved one to be appointed. Do not take it for granted that they will always be there when you want them. Remember all the dates you took when you were dating? Now, it is not so easy. Usually there are other people making demands on him – whether the children with their homework, or your boss expects you to an hour late, or even those old parents who need employment assistance programs. Once again, may need to find a baby sitter, or juggling time with other activities that may take precedence. Whatever happens, make time for each other. You can also time to embrace and / or kiss each other often. You will be glad you did. The time you spend together will give a new impetus and make you feel good for the rest of the day.

